Exactly the way your eyes experienced it
Remember it as it was
I believe that photos should take you back into time the exact same way your eyes remember that day. Some special moments are filled with excitement, joy, and tears, but that's all part of YOUR story and you should be able to remember it as it truly was. I am a true to color photographer, which means that my photographs reflect the colors exactly how they looked the day of your photoshoot.
If you're deciding on a photographer, consider what you want your memories to look like in ten or more years from now.